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Which Name sounds nicer for Raphael's Baby brother or sister? Ohh..By the way, Raphael's mummy is not pregnant haha
Boy - Gabriel
Boy - Ethan
Girl - Audrey
Girl - Ashley

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Milestone as at 23rd Dec 2009:
1. Bends over and picks up an object
2. Enjoys gazing at his reflection (He even kiss his own reflection)
3. Rolls a ball back and forth
4. Eats with fingers
5. Empties containers of contents and Puts objects into a container
6. Imitates others
7. Responds to instructions (e.g., "give me a kiss")
8. Plays with ball
9. Turns the pages of a book
10. Has temper tantrums when frustrated
11. Potty Trained
12. Says A, B, H, Bye, Dada, Mama
13. Walking without support for many many steps
14. Signal intend to mummy when he wants assistance
15. Cover himself with blanket..soo cute haha
16. Operate CD player (messing with it, pause, open)
17. Eat most foods and fruits, no need to puree
18. Gets jealous easily, mummy cannot even hug Daddy
19. Walk very steadily and even climb up the bed
20. Expanded vocabulary and understanding of instructions

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Amy and Baby Yanyan
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Thursday, December 31, 2009
Updated Pictures of Yvette

See how has Yvette changed since birth..she is such a big Jie Jie now to all the younger kids around her..Raphael, Matthias and Ian..

Yvette days after birth

Yvette latest pictures on Xmas 2009..she looks alot like Yvonne now
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Raphael is happy and shy

A sweet and cute observation of Raphael recently..After the gathering last week, guess Raphael still remembers Shaine..When we show a video with Shaine in it to Raphael..aiyooo..you should see his expression..he will 1st smile like very paiseh, then when we ask him who is this? he will say "Shaine Shaine"..

27th Dec 2009

But in the below picture, Shaine seems to be "attracted" by our muscular Dylan..look at her expression..so funny!.

27th Dec 2009


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Monday, December 28, 2009
Raphael's Speech

24th Dec 2009

Recently Raphael is able to link 2 words together to make some sense to Mummy & Daddy.

When he is playing with his toy car, he will try to sit on it and says out loud "Sit Car"

When he wants to watch Wheels on the bus, he will point to the TV and tell mummy "Watch Bus"

When he wants to eat the fish shaped snacks, he will tell us "Eat fish"

When he wants to leave the place, he will tell Mummy "Mummy Walk" or "Mummy go"

When he is leaving the place, he will tell people "Bye bye, See you" follow by a flying kiss.

Recently Mummy also tested him, he is able to identify from 1-12!!! hahhaaa... he will pronounce them! Great thanks to Brainy Baby! wohooo

Funny part is that Raphael can pronounce "twelve" (12) but pronounce "one one" (11) and not eleven haha

Wow.... Hope he will be more vocal in following weeks to come!



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Xmas party at My house -2 days after Xmas Day

As usual, we had our xmas party for the babies in my place. This time round we had it 2 days after xmas.
Daddy made the Cheesecake and Spagetti for the party which were full of praises!

26th Dec 2009

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As for Mummy...Banana Choc Muffin for our friends!

27th Dec 2009

Look at the spread of food, YUMMY!
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This is Raphael self proclaimed "girlfriend"...so pretty
27th Dec 2009

All the kids are captivated by our "AH CChoii"
27th Dec 2009

Rayden, so happily playing Car
27th Dec 2009

Megan...Really know how to pose!
27th Dec 2009

Jorel, looking at the helium balloons Aunty Adnes bought
27th Dec 2009

Dylan, Grown up so much, after going to CC
27th Dec 2009

Aldan Kor Kor, shy leh
27th Dec 2009

Damien, tempted Me to get the Thomas Train
27th Dec 2009

Kiss goodbye to Shaine...
27th Dec 2009

Aunty Doris Carrying me
27th Dec 2009

Where is Choc? Busy taking pictures lor
27th Dec 2009


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Saturday, December 26, 2009
Xmas party at Elsie and Chloe House - Xmas Day

Some pictures of Xmas Day Gathering at Elsie and Chloe house with Mummy's classmates

25th Dec 2009
Raphael trying to steal the limelight

25th Dec 2009
Official group photo

25th Dec 2009
Raphael is so serious when opening his present

25th Dec 2009
Babies and their presents.


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Xmas Party at Godpa Bennett's House - Xmas Eve

Gathering at Godpa's house tonight..Daddy was tasked to bring a baked Ham, which Daddy "invested" in a solid piece..Its a premium cherry glazed ham which Daddy got from Cold Storage..he had it baked till the fats on the ham is crackling and gosh..it smells heavenly..

Next up was homebaked cheesecake and some sparkling wines to complete our "assignment"..Yvette jie jie was there to welcome us, all decked out in her nice little frock.

Raphael was so happy that he kept running around the house and play with Yvette's toys..Then came the toy snatching incident where they both wanted a toy and just when Yvette almost won, Raphael let out a cry and Yvette was taken aback saying "Ah Phael cry, Ah phael cry!"..Raphael again uses his tactic to win the "WAR" haha..


Yvette is such a lovely gal she will give into Raphael everytime he crys haha..

24th Dec 2009
Nice cheesecake by Daddy

24th Dec 2009
Delicious ham from Cold Storage

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Lovely Yvette

24th Dec 2009
Present opening time!!

24th Dec 2009
Daddy and Raphael

24th Dec 2009
Godpa Bennett and Yvette


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Thursday, December 24, 2009
Home Baked Cheesecake for Xmas

24th Dec 2009
Before makeup

24th Dec 2009
After makeover

Its been ages since Daddy last baked cheesecake, NY style..This Xmas eve morning at 3am, Daddy woke up to start baking the cake so that we can bring it to Godpa Bennett's house for the Xmas eve party..The baking process was smooth despite Daddy being very sleepy (at 3-4am)..alas, not really so as after the mixture is poured into the mold, Daddy realized the vanilla essence wasnt added..Hope the cake will turn out well despite the omission of Vanilla.

This is the 1st attempt by Daddy to decorate the cake with Strawberries, Raspberries and Xmas deco..see the finished product..before and after "makeup" haha..


i love mummy & daddy

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Monday, December 21, 2009
Our Impact Model!





Nothing better to do...This is the picture selected which is posted in the impactmodels website.
Well.. Not sure issit the model too handsome or the skills of the photographer is not bad, but Mummy cant help feeling Raphael is indeed handsome..Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder


i love mummy & daddy

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Last Pump - 16th Dec 2009



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This is the very last pump picture... quite alot of milk still but must stop...else its never going to stop

Yeah, I am so happy today! I had my last pump on the 16th Dec 2009 Wednesday and today is the 5th day of non pumping day! I am successful in stopping it!!

It was a long long wait. I had been religiously pumping for Raphael for 19months, 19 day! hahahaa... Though it wasnt easy to switch him to FM quickly, all thanks to the Tokyo Trip whereby I heck care all and give him full feeds and he switch to FM!!!

Then I started to reduce my pump to 1 pump per day and suddenly I tried 2 days and now NO MORE!!! Of cause I can feel some milk loitering there but I am enduring! Shara told me soon, it will be OVER!

Really very happy about this though now every night I do feel something missing, and I keep looking at my beloved pump. It is now sitting inside the fridge, waiting to be officially declared as "DISCARD-ed" item...

Well, I must say Breastfeeding a child is never easy. To substain the milking process for 19.5 months is NOT EASY AT ALL. Somemore I had to pump in office toilet, to store the milk in the mini fridge, then sometimes too much milk I got to pour away some to fit into the Lansinoh Milk Bag... Then to transport home. It is just not easy.

I still remember in the beginning where I really dread going for movies or shopping as I got to pump every 2hourly, 3hourly...

To later stage, I pump 6, 8hourly, everything was a breeze. Though I managed to maintain the milk supply, I am T-I-R-E-D. I simply need a break.

Most importantly, I am still waking up to feed Raphael eveyr 3hourly during the night (sometimes I does overslpt and he drink 4hourly *Hiat Hiat*)


i love mummy & daddy

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4D Numbers



Noticed the numbers? such coincidence that both Raphael and Rayden wore tops with numbers on them..Raphael being younger, number 93 on the left, Rayden being older, number 25 on the right..so it adds up to 9325 or 2593..

For Daddy, we will be gunning for 9325 and all proceeds (if really strike haha) will go towards Raphael's EduFund.


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Progress in speech - 20-Dec-2009

14th Dec 2009

Tonight as usual we went over to Grandma Phay house for dinner and Mummy is again shocked by my speech..

I am able to pick up and know when to use the below phases!

1. Big Cars
2. Bye Bye (with a flying kiss)
3. See you
4. Oh no (When he fell down)
5. Oh Shit (When he fell down)
6. Taxi
7. Goor Goor (means Gu Gu, Auntie)
8. AIYO! (When he fell and hit his head)
9. AIYA! (I duno how he pick up)


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Kindermusic - 21 Dec 2009

Today will be the last lesson of the year as next Sunday is Xmas period, school be closed for a day! The next lesson be the first Sunday in Jan 2010!!

Look at how much I enjoyed the class with teacher Shauna! I loved her class, though I do not participate much but I do give out laughter when I am amused by teacher's action!

Something I am engrossed in today!
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Playing with the Hoola-Hoop
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My usual Routine in class, Walk and Run for at least 20 rounds till I sweat and pant!
20th Dec 2009

A short note to this walking and running, Mummy feels that Raphael is not participating much in class and she will drop the class once the terms end in Feb.

Its not a bad class but a pity Raphael doesnt participate much though he enjoys the parachute time, bubbles time and some sections of the class. Well, already paid for the class, just sit back, relax and we shall move on to Julia Gabriel in March!


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Xmas Party 2009 - May Babies Gathering

Its the time of the year and all thanks to Aunty Jo & Uncle Eric for organising this fantastic and enjoyable xmas party for the May Babies. Total number of babies attending is around 24 and can you imagine the logistic involved and the great amount of effort for coordinating this mission impossible.

As it is a non aircon place, Mummy decided to let Raphael dress lightly and coolingly. This is Raphael ARMY outfit, handsome bo?

19th Dec 2009

The story of the whole party shall start with my princess Shaine...
19th Dec 2009

Can you tell me who can resist her beautiful smile and lovely locks? Simply irresistable... But sorry to tell the rest of my buddies, She is taken.. By ME! hahaa
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Brothers in arm, My B-R-O-T-H-E-R! Guess who is more "elderly", Rayden or me?
19th Dec 2009

One of my BEST friend, Damien!
19th Dec 2009

This is Dylan, long time no see. Become so HANDSOME!
19th Dec 2009

Aldan Kor Kor... So tall now, heard he is 90cm!
19th Dec 2009

Keon...Still got that kissable lips....
19th Dec 2009

Princess Rachel, love her cheeks!
19th Dec 2009

Fun to be with my friends!
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Matthias, my "twins"... Born on the same day, wearing a Garfield outfit...so cute
19th Dec 2009

Jorel, gift exchange with Raphael
19th Dec 2009

Megan Grandma...Sorry Megan, Daddy so busy taking pictures of Shaine that he forgot to take my buddies!!
19th Dec 2009

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This is Lucas with Aunty Jovial, Mummy is of same age with her leh... hmmm.. Mummy...Why does she looks Younger?
19th Dec 2009

Most photogenic lady, Eudora
19th Dec 2009

Morgan, best dressed award
19th Dec 2009

One little background on this toy, Mummy nearly bought this the nite before at ILLUMA(Raphael was riding on it and jumping happily... You guys should know, she is a SPENDTHRIFT... cannot cure type), price was $29.90 and luckily she didnt. Else she will be banging wall right now as Aunty Jo got a GREAT deal, bought at $6!!! phew, thanks to them, Raphael got this toy he likes!

19th Dec 2009

Look at Mummy's face when she heard the toy is $6!!
19th Dec 2009

Raphael "protecting" his property (Daddy) when he sees so many little ones crowding around when Daddy is blowing bubbles..He is fiercely protective haha
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Mummy's Off Day - 18-DEC-2009

Today is Mummy's off Day... Yes on a Friday. Because she have too many leaves and just feel like taking a day off the hectic week.

In the morning she went to One Fullerton's Coffee Bean for breakfast with Daddy, followed by her usual Gym and then She went to Vivo (Mango and G2000 Sales....)

Luckily she didnt forget little Raphael. Together with Grandma, she brought Raphael out to BM NTUC. Partly due to Grandma saying go too far, Raphael will missed his afternoon nap and also Grandma is LAZY!

Picture taken at the BUS STOP! Yes, we are travelling by bus

18th Dec 2009

Raphael is so excited to sit on bus that he keep saying BUS! Look at him holding tightly to the umbrella (Grandma says it will rain.....)
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See him standing still on the travelator and holding on to the shopping basket... One word... Kawaiii
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This Raphael is so funny, while Mummy is looking at which shampoo to buy, he went and get this OXY Cover and threw it into the shopping basket!! Why do you need it?

18th Dec 2009

Then he went to get this Tigger! The way he hugs it, make the 2 "rich" ladies nearly say the word... "BUY"...as mentioned, NEARLY.... But now while typing, Mummy is regretting for not..

18th Dec 2009

Grandma says, choose any car you like...
Raphael fell in love with this car and somehow...No matter how we dissuade him, he still prefer it...
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Close up of the CAR! oh dear, CAR again!
18th Dec 2009

This marks the end of the NTUC trip.


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Sunday, December 20, 2009
Passions for C-A-R-S CARS!

Raphael always had a passion for the CAR thing. As long as there are 4 wheels, be it whether can it move or not, it will always be able to capture his attention.

The scariest thing is that Grandma Teo and Mummy keep buying lots and lots of cars. Ranging from $1 to $50, there is no limit to the budget of these 2 loving woman.

No money can gauge their love to fulfil Raphael's passion.

Look at this Mega Block Car.... We can only says that Mummy is so generous, to buy this.... Retailing at 49.90....

9th Dec 2009

But look at the excitement of Raphael when he received this...See, no amount of money can buy the happiness and excitement our Darling is experiencing!

9th Dec 2009


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Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Raphael unwell...


From last week till today, Raphael is down with cough and phelgm... Then on Sat and Sun night, he was running a slight fever.

Due to the phelgm which is causing discomfort in him, when he lies down to slp, he will tend to cough and vomit out the phelgm... So messy and tiring for Mummy and Daddy!

As Dr Tan's Clinic is not opened on Sunday, Mummy & Daddy delayed seeking treatment till Monday night.

The Queue was so long but Mummy felt its worth the wait... Which GP will be able to diagnosed and check in split seconds despite the commontion Raphael had caused.. His screaming, his cries and kicking and pulling of the

barang Dr Tan had. I doubt other GP are fast enough to handle.

Anyway, we waited from 745pm till 1210am before finally able to see our “idol"

Her sharp observation and quick diagnose really impressed Mummy.

Raphael is getting better after eating her prescribed medicine... YEAH!


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Monday, December 14, 2009
Ian's Baptism 13.12.2009

Ian's Baptism is on 13th Dec at Saint Anne Church..Amongst the 3, he is the youngest to be baptized at 2 months old compared to Yvette and Raphael..

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Big Family Pose

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The Parents and GodParents

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Ian Francis Phay

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Grandpa and Granny Anthony Low

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Auntie Mag and Theresa


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Granny Teo's Birthday..13.Nov.2009

Granny Teo turns 49! That's young for a Grandmother haha..We reserved a table in UOB Plaza Szechuan Restaurant to feast for the celebration.

Raphael had all the waitress smitten haha..his BIG eyes working its magic once again..

We had a filling dinner of all our fav dishes, again and again as its a ala-carte buffet..The szechuan chilli chicken had us all gulping water by the mouthfuls..its HOT..

At end of dinner, Auntie Layhoon brought out the nice little cakes which we initially thought we wont be able to finish due to the filling dinner..but alas, we still managed to finish all of it..

The waitress was still teasing us if we still need the cake box to pack home haha..

The next day was Granny's actual birthday, 13th Dec. So we had a small cake cutting session at Lao Gong's place..Just cant stop eating.. :)

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Dinner at Our Fav Restaurant on eve of Granny's birthday

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Raphael attempting to blow the candles

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Family pose

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Actual day cake cutting in Lao Gong's place

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Fruit Gateau cake from Bengawan Solo

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Raphael looks sick.becoz he is sick..poor boy


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Friday, December 11, 2009
New Canvas... Sneak Preview

New Canvas!
Version 1
Canvas Ver 2
Version 2

Mummy had always wanted to try something different on the Canvas.

This time round, she ordered a Canvas from another organiser in the Bulk Purchase section and this is the artwork she received from her.

Looks good... Lets wait and see if the quality is good as well


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Tortoise and journey back home

Yesterday, after Mummy reached Grandma Teo's Home and begin to relax at her place, she overheard Raphael telling Grandpa "Ah Gong, Torrrrtoisssse"

*Si mi please? Mummy Thought to herself*

Then Raphael hold Grandpa's hand and walk towards the toilet where our dear tortoise resides in...

He is so amazed by that tortoise despite the unpleasant smell it had!

Then he also tell Grandpa.. "Pok Pok Pok...Ah gong"...

*He is telling Grandpa to bring him downstairs to see motorcycles*

This goes on and on for the rest of the night..

Oh ya, when we reached SIM and had fetched Daddy... Raphael started to vomit... "ARRRRH".... must be the rocky car ride from Mummy *Oppps*...


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Family Day at Daddy's Office

Family Day in Daddy's workplace and Mummy took leave to bring Raphael to the party..There are lotsa balloons, food and entertainment for the kids..There is a station for making wax hand mould, candy floss, ice cream man, popcorn cart and handicraft session.

Mummy seems more excited about all these stations than Raphael..Our darling is only interested in Balloons and Chocolates..

Daddy? he is interested in only the food and wines haha..The party area is spacious and cooling..so fun to see Raphael running around and interacting with other kids and seducing adults..Best is Raphael call Daddy's HR Director "Kor Kor" and he was so happy hahaha..

Raphael even went to hug him and Sayang him..for his efforts, Raphael got a Merci chocolate which he is happily munching away in the picture below

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Kids Present galore..Raphael got a toy car..

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Raphael hands are full with Balloons

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Raphael with his Merci Choco given by Daddy's colleague

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Posing with Daddy's company Backdrop

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Daddy's company logo..

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Raphael in the trading floor, where fortunes are made and lost


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Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Raphael the Santa Claus

This is the start of Dec and Xmas is nearing the corner..Mummy got this nice little Santa Costume for Raphael and we wear it for his Sun kindermusik class. The original suit is abit large for Raphael, the sleeves and pants are covering all of Raphael's hands and legs..and guess what, Daddy actually modified the costume to make it shorter and we can see Raphael's hand..look nicer and cuter :)

6th Dec 2009
Santa is SHOCKED..what did he see? Daddy finished his MILO?

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Santa is roaming ard Tanglin Mall

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Notice little Santa in the class?


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Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Granny Phay Birthday Day Out

Its 4th Dec and the eve of Granny Phay's birthday..So Daddy took leave to bring Granny out as usual..Lunch of her choice..walked ard looking for western restaurant as Granny said she wish to eat set lunch haha..alas, walked past the Peranakan restautant and Granny was attracted to it..so ended up eating baba food..nice curry assam fishhead..yummy..no pics of the food as we are too hungry to wait for Daddy to take out his camera haha

After that, we window shopped until the Mickey mouse show before Mummy treated us to a Ben and Jerry ice cream bonanza..the ice cream is so scrumptious with the brownies and cookies..double yummy..

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Same expression..ARGHhh...mouth BIG BIG

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Mouth Still BIG BIG..

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Raphael posing with Granny Teo and Mickey

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Ice cream treat by Mummy for all after the Peranakan Lunch

4th Dec 2009
Raphael attracted by the water sprouts in Vivo


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Video of Raphael enjoying Mickey Mouse Show at Vivo

Raphael has always held Mickey Mouse in a special place in his heart..Whenever we reaches home, he will go into his room and hug Mickey Mouse and lie on the floor..So going to see the Mickey Mouse show in Vivo has become a must for us..At the show, we can see how Raphael enjoys himself from the video..he was dancing and clapping along with the music..We can also see him clearly identifying the dog and duck in the show (Donald Duck and Goffy Dog)

VIDEO UPLOADING....................


7th Dec 2009

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Sunday, December 6, 2009
2nd Photo Shoot at Impact Model

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Friday, December 4, 2009
Raphael is 19Months old

Time seems to flies fast especially when it comes to having Raphael around. Now he is a 19months toddler, full of cheeky ideas and patterns!

He is now capable of linking objects with words, and identifying them irregardless of the different forms they comes in.

Also his imitation now is damn powerful, you can teach him all sorts of stuffs and he actually try to mimic you!

Just today, he told Mummy "Ah Gong, Pok Pok Pok Pok"...Mummy was puzzled until Grandma told her, "Oh, your Dad set off riding his motorcycle this morning and Raphael goes on saying Pok Pok Pok as the motor sound"

Wow Wow! Thats very fantastic! Also, on the same day, Raphael says "I NO"... Meaning he do not wish to do something or eat something.

Somehow, Mummy feel so happy. My boy may not be a genius, a super baby, but to me now, he is performing well and beyond my expectation.

Physical development I do believe he is above average for height and weight. So will keep feeding him with porridge and milk.

Sad to say, he is still with 16 teeths, the last 4 are nowhere in sight.

Back to the celebration of his 19th Month birthday, we had 2 special guest, Godpa and Godma!
They specially came over at 1130pm to celebrate, special thanks for the effort!

This month, is special because Mummy wanted to try the Swissbake Cakes and its cheap! It costs Mummy $15 for a round cake! (instead of buying from Cedele Depot per slice is 7.50!!)

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The affordable delicious cake from Swissbake

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Yum YUm... Lets dig in!



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Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Interesting observation of Raphael

Raphael has been responding well to "bribes" lately..Milo, biscuits, yakult are all good bribery items when we want to catch his attention or make him behave..

As mummy mentioned before, he will correctly point out his body parts when you ask him to, with a packet of milo in your hand.

However, he has since progressed and can even pre-empt our actions haha..

Last night, Mummy had a packet of milo, sitting in the playroom..as expected Raphael "spotted" his target and promptly went over to mummy's side and sit down..then suddenly Raphael goes..."head..head..head..", "eyes...eyes...eyes..."

He is sooooo initiative hahaha...he knew that he needs to "perform" to get his Milo..and he did it without Mummy asking..

He can also "plead" with us by saying "pleeeeasseeeee" when he wants something desperately..Daddy overheard him telling mummy "please" when he wanted to press the lift button last night at Tiong Bahru Plaza..

Some more interesting things to add on, last night Mummy layed out nicely 3 sets of PJs...
Asking Raphael which one he would like to changed into, Monkey design, Tortoise design or the pinky one...(Recently Raphael hates it when pple change him without his consent... and he will cry n cry to protest, so Mummy thought of this method)

Raphael pointed and took the tortoise design and give to Mummy..So Mummy helped him changed and surprisingly..he didnt struggle at all and in fact after changing he still look down at the colorful tortoise..
hmmm...isnt it interesting?

Our little Darling is really learning fast, absorbing like a sponge.

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Monday, November 30, 2009
Raphael Calls "Jie Jie"

27th Nov 2009

Raphael had been very vocal and recently... He can try to pronounce whatever you want him to, provided you bribe him or if his mood is good.

For example, we have absolutely no idea that he knows how to identify all his body part till that day we were drinking a packet Milo and Raphael wanted it badly.

Daddy ask him where is his nose, eyes, head, mouth, tongue, feet, hands, fingers, toes, ear etc, he can point to them correctly.Best part is he can even try to pronounce the word and not to mentioned, is accurately identifying each of these.

Putting aside body parts, he can also pronouce daily items like Chairs, Table, Bus, Car, Ball, Socks, Shoes, Duck, Dog, Cat, Tree, Grass, Water, Milo, Yakult, Bubbles, Bear, Walk, Run, Fish,Fan, TV, Clock, Light, Orange, Apple... the lists goes on and on....and not forgeting the 26 Alphabets and 1-9 numbers!!!

Wohooo! Also, he is not blindly remembering such items as he can also identify variation of these objects, such as a green apple is an apple, a Red one also is an apple!The clock at our home is a clock, the clocks he sees outsides are also clocks!!

Mummy and Daddy are so proud...shows that our on and off efforts of flashing him cards, acting silly, singing the body parts song paid off..Of cause most efforts are also contributed by Grandpa and Grandma Teo who had been religiously teaching him daily.
Oh...Mummy is always so talkative and long winded...Back to the topic of calling "Jie Jie"

Raphael first call to Jie Jie was actually calling Aunty Doris at Kindermusic yesterday. Raphael called Aunty Doris "Aunty" and she joking ask Raphael to call her "Jie Jie"..Then Raphael start to call her Jie Jie.

At night when we reach Grandma Phay house, Yvette Jie JIe is there! When Raphael saw her, he keep calling her "Jie Jie"!! haha...its so fun to see him calling Yvette Jie Jie!!Raphael went around chasing Yvette and its so sweet!!



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Sunday, November 29, 2009
Outing to ECP Cycling and PolliWog

This outing has been in the planning for ages, until the Haji hols last fri when Daddy managed to get EVERYONE to agree to wakeup earlier on a hols to go ECP for some fun..

Today we have a big turnout, Godpa, Godma, Yvette jieji, Tua Pek, Tua Um, Uncle Adrian, Aunt Serene, Baby Matthias, Ah Gu, Ah Yee and Grandma Teo.

Gathering time at ECP BK at 10am..we were expecting a leisure breakfast followed by a stroll along the beach before Polliwoq and cycling..However, the 1st sign of "trouble" was the carparks are all full at 10am..followed by super loong queues at BK..

Think Daddy is "mountain tortoise" already..still thought 10am is early..the park is already flooded by then..

No more leisurely, the battle to queue for food begins and also entry to Polliwoq before it gets real crowded..

Raphael has a fun day with running around on grass, polliwog and lastly cycling..

The sun was blazing and the wind was breezy on the bike..Raphael was like so lazy and enjoying, at one time Daddy tot Raphael fall asleep in the child seat haha..but he was only relaxing and not moving, enjoying the breeze on his face..

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ECP at 10am on Haji Hols

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Raphael all ready to go cycling

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Give me a FIVE!!

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Baby Matthias joining us at POlliwog

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Yvette jie jie 1st visit to Polliwog, soo HAPPY!

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Cheeky Raphael, resting his weight on Ah Yee!

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crawling out of the tunnel, supporting using his hands.


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Thursday, November 26, 2009
18Months old Booster Jab, 11.8kg

This jab had been delayed since beginning of the month till today. The first cancellation was due to Dr Allyson Tan going to Tokyo till mid Nov... So we scheduled a date with her after our Tokyo trip.

Then on 21st Nov, Daddy realised that he got to work from morning till late afternoon followed by his school...So again we postponed...

Then on 23rd Nov, we rushed down to the night clinic thinking that Our Dear Dr Tan be around... Hai... Sad to say she rushed to hospital for an emergency and night clinic is closed for the day.

So today, 25th Nov, Wednesday, Mummy called to ensure that the night clinic be OPENED and they will not rushed down in vain.

The nurse who answered Mummy's call could actually recognised her voice!! OMG!

When we registered ourselves at 750pm, we were told to go home, bathe ourselves and wait...

So we went to Grandma Phay's Home and eat dinner happily while Raphael played happily with "Bek Bek", "Ah Mmmmg"... Oh ya, today Raphael learnt how to called Brandon Bek Bek... hehee...though at first sounds like Baby...As he called many times the Bek Bek seems clearer.

Then Uncle Brandon tried to test Raphael's Patience by blocking his toys and there was an instance Raphael got so fed up that he exclaimed "HAIII YA!!! Bek Bek"... then he swing his hands backwards.

This make the pple in the room laughed!

Okok..Back to the Booster Jab.. When we reached the clinic at 1015pm, (Yes, Our Dr Tan is always so busy, her appt can always last up to 11pm if not close to 12 midnite... )

Raphael started to get upset with the weighing and height measurement..

We were able to get his weight though... is 11.8kg! WOW! Height undetermined as he kept crying and was so cranky. NVM, Let his height remains at 84cm..is ok...forget about measurement

So when it is our turn to go inside to see our Ah Tan, Raphael started to scream and shout as he saw the jab/needle on her table...

It was a disaster... You can never imagine how loud and scary he scream!! Those patients outside got a shock of their life!!!

Anyway, Dr Tan commented that Raphael's Speech is progressing so fast, better than her expectation as when he was 15months old, he couldn't talk much and we were pretty worried about his speech. Now he could identify and say orange, apple and many many items

Hehee... Mummy got to give a special thanks to Grandpa Teo and Grandma Teo for their dedicated time and efforts to guide Raphael... Else I doubt Raphael can be so proficient now..

Ok...Video be uploaded later as Mummy not so power in this... Here is 2 pictures of him before jab.. After jab it was too chaotic...

**ps: I think by now, people can identify which posts are written by Mummy and which are written by Daddy... HAHAAA

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Aunty Hoon's present to Raphael

Woohooo...This is Aunty Hoon so called first present for Raphael aside from the cute Teddy Bear she bought for Raphael's full month party... Wah...It has been 18 months since she last buy something for Raphael leh.

Even Uncle Lai, always showered Raphael with Yakult, biscuits, chips etc... No wonder Hoon start to feel paiseh and also went to get a top for Raphael.

Why are they showering Raphael with presents and food? Oh, this is because our Raphael has a way to get into their hearts, by calling them repeatedly "Ah Yeeee", "Ah Guuuu" everytime he sees them in his sight. **SO SWEET**

Even when back at home, he will still missed them alot... Sometimes even call out their names in his dream..This little boy...

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Just wash this top...will update with Raphael wearing it in person...


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How Raphael eats his meals

To be frank, till now feeding Raphael to eat is never easy. Grandma Teo is always patient and determined to finished that bowl of porridge be it Raphael likes it or not.

She will try all sorts of ways. Recently after the Tokyo Trip, Raphael seems to be more resistant to porridge (Maybe due to the 6 days break without porridge in Tokyo...)

Grandma Teo as usual, is resourceful. Guess what, she is now using a bowl, with a few ice cubes and a little bit of water to let Raphael "Fish" out the ice cubes using that tiny spoon. *APPLAUSED*...

If Raphael do get bored, she will add more ice cubes inside that bowl... Else will be tons of toys to keep him occupied...

How can she think of such a brilliant idea to keep Raphael occupied? Mummy witness this when she was on sick leave on Tuesday.

Let us give our powerful Grandma Teo a round of big applause.. Thanks to you. Raphael is now 11.8kg!

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Raphael playing with toys

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He always secretly spit out the porridge..

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This is the bowl of ice cubes

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Stirring the bowl of ice

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Tasting the icy water


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Monday, November 23, 2009
Terrible Twos and Raphael

Below article is worth reading, especially recently we realised Raphael is getting abit more of a terror out of a sudden.

He will cry at the slightest unhappiness and throw tantrum if things are not done according to his way. He will try to hit us when angry...

We as parents sometimes feel frustrated of such behaviour.. But have we truly understand why are they behaving these ways?

Maybe I pamper him too much, gone are the times with caning and physical abuse. It will only cause a mark to remember forever in a little kid fragile heart.

Below is the abstract taken from the link and I personally find greater depths in it...

http://pediatrics.about.com/od/toddlers/a/05_terrble_twos.htm


"No one looks forward to the terrible twos, a developmental stage that usually begins sometime in the toddler years.

Although many parents don't expect the terrible twos to start until their toddler is two years old, it is important to note that it can begin anytime during your child's second year, and so anytime after their first birthday, and unfortunately, sometimes even before.

Characterized by toddlers being negative about most things and often saying 'no', the terrible twos may also find your toddler having frequent mood changes and temper tantrums.

To help you cope with this normal stage in your child's development, you should always remember that your child isn't trying to be defiant or rebellious on purpose.

He is just trying to express his growing independence and doesn't have the language skills to easily express his needs.

This can also be the reason why your toddler frequently gets frustrated and resorts to hitting, biting, and temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way.

By learning more about this normal stage in your child's development, it can make it easier to get through it and make sure that you aren't contributing to more battles than are necessary.

Other tips for helping your toddler during the terrible twos include:

  • having a regular routine for meals, naps, bedtime, etc. and try to stick to them each day
  • offer limited choices only, like 'would you like apples or oranges for your snack' and not just 'what do you want for your snack.'

    This helps your toddler feel like he is making some decisions and has power over things, but he isn't able to choose unacceptable alternatives.
  • learn to set limits about things and don't be surprised when your toddler tries to test those limits to see what he can get away with
    don't give in to tantrums
  • begin to use time-out and taking away privileges as discipline techniques
  • provide your toddler with a safe environment that is well childproofed to explore and play in. It really isn't fair that your toddler should get in trouble for playing with something he isn't supposed to if you left it within reach.

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Our "Hiao" Raphael

Some pics of our "Hiao" Raphael..always full of funny pose and actions to amuse Daddy and Mummy

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The link between Grandpa and Grandson

Seeing how Grandpa Phay's eyes lights up whenever he sees Raphael brings tremendous joy to Daddy..The relationship between father and son can sometimes be a "strained" one..being guys, we may not be able to express our love and care for each other well..Both being quick tempered, conversations used to become arguments hahaha..

But with Raphael as a bridge, and also Daddy becoming "Daddy", he begins to understand the greatness of Fatherly love and appreciate Grandpa Phay all the more..looking at how Grandpa has aged..we sometimes ask ourselves..why we only realised that age has caught up with them only recently..maybe its due to we being too engrossed in our own world and thus neglected precious people around us.

From the pictures below, you can see the loving looks of how a Grandpa cares and love his Grandson..and this is the same love that was showered on Daddy when he was young..but we may not realised it, but only by observing this from afar as a "3rd" party, like when Daddy is taking these shots..then can we see this LOVE

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Grandpa lovingly prepare Yakult for Raphael

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Can you feel the love of Grandpa in the way he looks at Raphael

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Granny Phay's stall closing

After years and years to tolling for the Family, Grandma Phay is giving up her stall selling breakfast items in HG Plaza..End of Nov will be the last day of operation and after that will be days of rest and mahjong.

All regulars at this coffeeshops will miss Grandma's good food and bubbly natured service :)

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Grandma is calling it quits to rest and relax

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Daddy's favourite Carrot Cake from Grandma's stall


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Little Santa Claus

Its Xmas season again! Last year this time, Raphael was only a 6 months old BABY..Now he is a bubbly 18th Month toddler..how time flies..Look at the Santa costume Mummy got for him..The material is soft and comfortable..so Raphael has no problem wearing it..small problem though..Raphael's head is too big..so the hat cant really fit well :P

This will be his official Xmas dress and Daddy is planning to dress him as Santa even going shopping haha..

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Thursday, November 19, 2009
Raphael switches to FM

YEah, officially on 19th Nov 09 (Thursday), Grandma Teo started giving Raphael Friso 2 alone, no mixing of EBM!

I am so happy that finally Raphael can take full Formula feed! Yippie!

I can finally retired from this hectic moo-mooing after 18mos lor! hehee...

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ANA Flight's Experience


I am indeed very impressed with their on board service and their attentiveness and also the small details which were being taken care of...
I can say that their services and quality are comparable to SQ, if not better.. Personal opinion..

When we boarded the ANA plane, their stewardess are attentive, and surprising thing is we have a baby meal for our baby Raphael...
Though he is not eligible for the bassinet..due to the max weight limit of 9kg..(Sian man...he exceeded by 2.5kg...), we were given very good services..
First is the baby snack given to Raphael and he goes "MUM MUM MUM"... He keep eating the sandwich and gave an exaggerated "Mum" Sound...
We were so amazed that he actually ate it.. .Maybe its the environment and maybe he is hungry... dunno why...

Then came the super early breakfast whereby they ON the light at 5am in the morning...(Singapore time is 4am...) Give us sets of breakfast each...
Raphael also received his Breakfast but as he is sleeping, we kept it aside.
Then upon return, the late nite snack was Ice cream, Hagan Daz!!!
Waaaaa.... Power! I love this airline..will definetely take ANA again!


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Pinocchio Plush Doll

Mummy will be getting this Pinocchio Plush Doll from Amazon for me! This will be the BIG Xmas present Daddy was blogging about in the Xmas tree entry..this pinocchio thing came about due to Raphael being so excited at seeing Pinocchio at Tokyo Disneyland.


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Japan Trip - Disneyland!

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At entrance to Magical Disneyland
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Behind is the Disney Hotel

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The 1st magical character Raphael met is Pinocchio

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The Disney Castle in the backdrop

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Raphael roaming ard Disney

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Huh...come all the way and you are closed for maintainence.

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Raphael enjoying the parade..he knows how to wave and dance to the music

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Mickey on the parade

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Posing with Goofy

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Mickey and Minnie at the Xmas Theme parade

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Mummy posing with Minnie's house

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Disney Castle at night.


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Japan Trip Day 5-6

16th Nov 2009
1st attempt on Tokyo's railway system, from Shinjuku to Tsukiji Fish market

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Raphael on the packed train

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Family pose in Tsukiji Fish Market

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Posing with a TUNA, all cut up

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Daddy's 1st "REAL" Japanese Sushi meal at Tsukiji

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Raphael on the Train, noticed the cushion on their seats?


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Fun Shots - By Grandpa Teo

What a funny shot haha..Daddy and Mummy didnt realised what Grandpa Teo "did" to Raphael until we chance upon these pictures on the "older" canon that was use for Daily shots for Raphael..

Look at his innocent look, like blur blur and the number of curlers!! 5 Curlers in total..can you imagine how long his hair are hahaha..that was before we brought him to trim his hair before his photoshoot..

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Innocent look
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5 Curlers!!


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Japan Trip Day 3-4

14th Nov 2009
Visit to Asakusa temple where Raphael enjoys washing his hands in the icy cold water.

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Outside of the temple

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Raphael roaming the streets next to the temple in his new Zara trenchcoat

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Next Stop - Ginza, Burberry Blue Label where mummy spent an ATOMIC BOMB

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Stop by Tokyo Tower

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On way to Mt Fuji when the sky clears to allow us a glimpse of the old lady

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Our Tatami room for the night stay in the Onsen hotel

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Raphael all dressed up for dinner, in a Yutaka

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Family pose at 5th Station of Mt Fuji..it was freezing cold. look at Raphael's expression

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nice view of Mt Fuji at the foot of the mountain

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Big EYE Raphael mesmerising all the Aunties in the tour group

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Mummy at the Gotemba Outlet, not cheap leh..


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Japan Trip Day 1-2

12th Nov 2009
Raphael running around in T2

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Arrival at Tokyo Narita Airport, 7am in the morning

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Raphael all wrapped up, at Yokohama resting station. Temp ard 11 Degree

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Visit to Ramem Museum, a collection of many nice Ramen shops in a olden Japanese settings

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Nice Ramen that Daddy ordered..it was salty, but overall 8/10

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Raphael enjoying himself in the cold weather

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Visit to Kirin Beer factory, followed by some beer sampling.

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Raphael posing for the camera..

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Family pose at Yokohama Chinatown

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Night scene at Shinjuku where we had out Dinner for the 1st Night in Tokyo


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Raphael 2nd Photoshoot at Impact Model - 12th Nov 09

This is Raphael's 2nd session for this 2nd photoshoot..Reason being his hair was too long to style and the previous shots are all rejected by the agency..So we are back again, this time with shorter, neater hair..

Hope they wont "reject" the photos this time round haha..

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Before styling
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After Styling
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Spraying Raphael's hair


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Julia Gabriel Visit - 12th Nov 09

Brought Raphael to JG at Evans Road for a visit..the place was hard to reach and the carpark was limited..cant imagine a Sunday afternoon, jostling with all the Mercz, BMWs and Volvos that we saw on a weekday visit haha..

Well, the place looks "expensive" and its not cheap..Raphael seems to be interested in the class that is going on and he will peep into the rooms..Dunno interested in the activities or the little gals in the room haha..

The environment was not too bad, wasnt very cramped and the nationalities of the little ones are mixed and the weekend classes are bilingual..guess it will be good to expose Raphael to multi-racial and language at a young age..

Daddy gave his approval to enrol and we are on waiting list in Feb 2010 after Raphael completes his current KinderMusik semester.

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Raphael looks so longing to join in the activity
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Raphael learning to open the tap and wash his hands
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Peeping into one of the many class


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Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Countdown to Tokyo Trip - 12th Nov 2009

all ready!
Our new Lojel Web Series Luggage

Yeah...we have everything ready, Long John for Raphael, Zara Coat (Phael), Zara Trenchcoat (Mummy), shawl, gloves and socks for Phael, milk powder, diapers, medicine...

Mummy and Daddy spent 2 hours packing and vacuuming the clothes and the space saving is tremendous..the luggage from "full" when loosely packed becomes half empty when vacuumed.

Relaxing day today, flight in the night and Daddy last min booked movie tickets for 2012. Heard its a nice and thought provoking movie dealing with how human's actions caused our own demise etc..

We are all packed and ready for the trip..Forget about work and studies..Hols 1st!

Daddy's clothes before and after vacuum
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Raphael's diaper before and after vacuum
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Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Raphael's new HairCut

Raphael's hair is getting longer, especially the sides and back..Daddy, however loves it the way it is..so charming..But due to Raphael having a studio session soon, the stylist advise us to trim his hair so that the photos will look nicer..Daddy was like "Huh? need to cut hair to take photo meh..just put gel will do mah...".

But anyway, we just brought Raphael to SuperCuts at Compasspoint to trim his locks..Raphael was so uncooperative that he crys and struggle when we put him on the car (seat)..he will cling on to mummy...maybe its the new environment or the presence of the many stylist..

In the end, Raphael clung onto mummy while the stylist cut his hair..all in we need 4 people to entertain him..Mummy, Daddy and 2 stylist.

The cut was over in 10mins and when paying, mummy realised its $5 cheaper than our last visit..maybe its due to Raphael not sitting in the Car or watch cartoons haha..

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Xmas Tree @ HOME

Our Xmas tree is up..Daddy has been reusing this same White\Gold deco theme for 3 years already..really very thrifty haha..

This year, we will be getting a nice big present for Raphael and let him open it on Xmas eve..He will be so looking forward to every Xmas going forward if we make it tradition in the family..

Heard mummy eyeing a Santa Claus romper for Raphael..maybe can dress him up as Santa on Xmas parties..

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Monday, November 9, 2009
2012 Prophecy - What a fearful thought

8th Nov 2009

With the opening of the doomsday movie 2012, Daddy have been very interested in the whole theory of how the world will end..Usually when faced with such events like 2000 doomsday etc, Daddy was never affected much..

But with Raphael Darling born to us, Daddy is starting to be fearful of such thought..how to protect Raphael, how to treasure our times together..If human activities are causing global warming and thus caused Doomsday..Daddy is prepared to go back to pre-historic days, farming and hunting for food, travel on foot, live in caves..so long as Raphael is safe and can grow up in a safe environment..

Starting from today, Daddy will use less aircon, take more public transport, eat less meat (yes..meat increased global warming)..

Haha..Daddy thinking too much..but with the thought of doomsday..cant help but feel sad..cant imagine not being able to love and care for Rapahel..if we go to the next world, we will still want to continue caring for Raphael..


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Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Visiting Shaine - 8th Nov 2009

Shaine and Raphael at 4 months old..when they 1st met
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Shaine and Raphael Fourteen Months later..the story continues
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Its Sunday and mummy brought Raphael to Shaine's house to collect a t-shirt Auntie Corynn (thanks thanks) bought for Rapahel..We reached by noon and Beautiful Shaine is awaiting her playmate for the day...

Look at the 1st pics of when they are approx 4 months old when they 1st met at Auntie Doris's house..time flies..they are already 18th month toddlers..

Shaine is so excited to see Raphael and willingly share all her toys..they had a great time watching Barney videos and Raphael enjoy playing on the slide..he will let out a "shriek" sound whenever he slides to the bottom..As for Shaine..she is a heroine..she dont slide haha...she RUNs down the slide..

We got them to hug each other for pictures and you can see how Raphael is "blushing" while Shaine hugs him haha..Shaine is so open in showing her affection while Raphael is more reserved..

Its a fun afternoon for us seeing how the 2 little ones enjoy each others company..more to come..


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Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Astroboy

Raphael seems to be captivated by this poster at Bugis... So On and Off Mummy will exclaims "Astroboy" and Raphael will be so excited looking up trying to locate the poster...

Wondering whether will we be able to get a toy for him.... with this character...hehe

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Happy 18th Month old!

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3rd Nov  2009 - 18th Month

Raphael is finally 1.5 years old! Yeah! With his weight at 11.5kg, height at 84cm, I am so proud to have this charming handsome boy as my son.

Never fails to attract alot of attention be it in birthday parties, daily NTUC trip, even taking MRT he also can Attract people's attention.

Lets see some of the milestones he had achieved before we display pictures of his 18th month old cake..

• Throws a ball overhand

• Takes toys apart and puts them back together

• Dances to music

• Sorts toys by color, shape, or size

• Kicks ball forward

• Speaks more clearly

• Uses a spoon and fork

• Runs

• Throws a ball underhand

• Enjoys helping around the house

• Points to picture or object when you call it by name

• Dumps an object in imitation, such as throwing garbage away


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Monday, November 2, 2009
Outdoor Shoot - Model : Raphael

Model : Raphael Phay
Age : 17mths 30 Days old
Height :83cm
Weight : 11.5kg
Location : Bugis Junction
Clothes : Mummy Sponsored
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Fun Shots of Raphael

Some interesting shots or our Prince Charming to share..mostly candid shots which captures the "hidden" side of Raphael..Doesnt the 2nd pic looks like "Rou Gu Mei" from the Channel 8 series some time back?

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Raphael fav drink - Yakult
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Dont Raphael look like a gal? haha
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new FOX sweater for Tokyo Trip!


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Staycation - InterContinental - Bugis

Its 30th Oct and Daddy booked this Hotel getaway a month back..good offer at 2 nights for the price of one..Romantic also good to have budget mah..The room is spacious even with a baby cot for Raphael darling..the hotel is just at Bugis Junction, so shopping and makan is so convenient.

The pool area has a baby pool which is at knee length, great for Raphael. There is also a Jacuzzi pool which is sheltered..nice place for a lazy afternoon.

Too bad Daddy got didnt manage to catch the Michael Jackson's "This is IT" midnight show..else the stay would have been near perfect..Can you imagine watching midnight till 2am, then slowly walk mins back to hotel and Zzz..thats the whole point of staying in the city!

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Nice big KING size bed..Raphael never sleep in his cot throughout the stay 30th Oct 2009
Mummy posing for the camera 31st Oct 2009
Raphael enjoying the baby pool


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Thursday, October 29, 2009
First Customised RL Baseball Cap




Look at this cap, isn't it a beauty? Thanks to Aunty Doris who had informed Mummy of this great bargain and Mummy had placed order with Aunty Firefly... Yeah..this cost Mummy less than SGD 15 bucks!
Great Savings! Thanks Aunty Doris


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Tuesday, October 27, 2009
New words of the day - 27/10/2009

18th Oct 2009

Yeah, Raphael finally learns how to call his uncle "Ah Gu", "Gu Gu"
and when he see Yakult...he can pronounce it properly!

When Ah Lai Ah Gu hear Raphael calling him, he was so happy that he brought Raphael down to buy Yakult (Phael's Favourite drink)....

Hehehee... Very happy his speech is progressing well, all thanks to my parents who taught him all this..

He also can pronounce "Clock" and point to clock lor!

Hey hey, not forgetting he also know how to call "Yee Yee" instead of "Ah Chew" for Auntie Hoon (But this is dependent on Phael's Mood...Ah Chew is still the tag for Hoon, maybe hoon should get ah Phael some Milo or Yakult?)

Oh by the way, Raphael knows how to call my chinese name! "Yu Ying"!!!!

Surprises are springing onto me day by day... When I get my bonuses, I really need to treat my parents who had been so tolerant and so patient with my boy... =)


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What makes me happy?

This is a short note for Raphael from Mummy...

What truly make me happy? What is the definition of the word Happy?

Happy to me is something which make my heart melts and smile from within..

No fake smiles, no fake acknowlegement..A pure feeling which come from the bottom of my heart and nothing else.. no obligations, nothing...

Why am I saying all these?

Recently I been observing my boy and he is always playing cheerfully, be it playing with switches, TV, Fan, or his toys.

He will smile and laugh...Then i posted him this question..."Baby, are you happy?"

Out of my surprise, he nodded his head and reply me "Baby...Happy."

Sometimes he will walk to me, hug me from behind and says "Mummy.. Baby.. Happy"

I melted when I hear him say all these, he is happy, maybe...

I do not believe in giving him numerous classes to enrich him, as I hope that his childhood be filled with plays, eat, happiness.I only believe in enrolling him in classes he will enjoy, like Kindermusic and in future maybe Julia Gabriel.

Recently we observed that he is very happy in this class which he had attended for 2 terms (16 weeks) and he love this teacher, Shauna.

He will played with her and disturb her during lessons (pulling off her scarf during peekaboo time and exclamining out loud "Zak" and trying to cling to her)

Last night he was playful again, didnt sleep till 1am... When I was trying to cover myself with blanket, he came over, said "no more... no more... Mummy"... Pull off my blanket and try to drag me to sit upwards..

"Arrrrh.... What do u want my boy..." I asked... "Play?" He nod his head...

Why me? I thought... Daddy is also in the room, sleeping...

Yes, sleeping.. "Why dun u go over and disturb him instead?" I ask him... He shake his head.. "Mummy Mummy...."

This is the price to pay... No maid, no mother staying over to help me... But i get the freedom, the space I wanted...

Of coz there are pros of having a maid or mother staying over to help, more sleep, more relax, more rest... Realised is just rest in this case...But they tend to lose out in the long run, the child will prefer the main caretaker more..trust me.. This is very true...

They will not be as close to you, this is the path I have chosen.. Although I do doubt myself sometimes in the journey... But after seeing how much Raphael prefers me..

Its all worth it... They need attention, care and lots of cuddles from us.
Well Well... I am tired sometimes... But happy he learnt alot through playing with us.

HAPPY!
24th Oct 2009


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Monday, October 26, 2009
Uncle Brandon's Birthday Ooops

25th Oct 2009..a Birthday celebration that will remain in Daddy's memory for all the wrong reason haha..Just a week ago before Tua Pek's birthday, Daddy was still telling Mummy he planning to celebrate for Tua Pek at where and where etc..

Then came the rush of activites over the week that he totally lost track of dates..And on Sun 25th Oct, the family met up for dinner at Godpa's house.

Grandma cook mee siam *1st unusal thing* on Tua Pek's actual birthday..then no one mentioned anything about the birthday when Tua Pek arrives at the house wearing nice clothes haha *2nd unusual thing*..the *3rd unusual thing* is at 9.30pm, Daddy was rushing Mummy to packup and go home to watch ManUtd Vs Liverpool..

At this point of time, Tua Pek went to the toilet to change out of his nice clothes..Still no one congratulate him...the FACT is everyone forgets about his 33rd Birthday!!Poor Tua Pek also didnt hint earlier hahaha..

Only when BIG Sis-in-law gentle reminder at 10.45pm did the whole family realised whats "wrong" hahaha..immediately, we stopped what we are doing and Godpa went to hunt for a cake at 11.15pm to meet the dateline for blowing candles..

What a memorable Birthday event..

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Last min cake - not nice leh..
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Why are we all dressed so casually, you guessed it
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Busy, Tired and Fun weekend

This weekend was full of activities..from Fri all the way to Sun..Daddy and Mummy took leave on Fri to bring Raphael to ECP Polliwog's for a workout session haha..the place is spacious and child safe..it was also not crowded on Fri when we went..

Raphael had a good time overcoming obstacles, playing slides and throw balls, but what was missing are playmates for him..as we observed that he enjoys more when Rayden, Damien and Jorel is around.

Thats what happens on Sat when the F4 gathered at GOGo Bambini at Dempsey for more fun..The boys had a great time interacting while overcoming the obstacles..Poor Daddy..Goliath in David's den..had to squeeze thru the small space just to take photos of Raphael..
Next visit to Polliwogs, mummy was thinking of bringing Yvette jie jie together...yoohoo..it will be so much fun.
Polliwogs
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Raphael facing all the obstacles..dunno how to start
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I am the BABY!
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Preparing to slide down
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Happy Raphael with Daddy
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Most challenging Obstacle in Polliwogs

Visit to the neighbourhood playground
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Raphael performing a dance routine for Mummy haha..he will respond to Mummy saying "Dancing Dancing all around..Dancing Dancing round"

GoGo Bambini

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Raphael getting ready to spring a surprise on Damien?

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Balancing Act
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Raphael's update

23rd Oct 2009

So excited and happy, Raphael had finally crossed the 10.xxxkg mark! he is now officially a 11.5kg BOY! (Reasonable for coming to 18months boy rite?) hahaaa..
We went to PD last weekend to buy some travel medicine for our Tokyo Trip...Daddy was super excited on Raphael's weight as he kept complaining that Raphael seems heavier!
So we put him on weighing scale..OMG...11.5kg! hahaa... Duno since when he grew so much, maybe due to the "junkie" food mummy had fed him..
Mcvities lar, Hello Panda, Magnolia milk, Yakult, anything Mummy love, he also love... not forgeting the Whopper burger (daddy always feed him the patties)...
Oh ya, recent word Raphael had picked up is "HAPPY"... he will say Mummy, Baby, Happy... Is he trying to tell me that he is happy?
Then on one occassion Daddy Jumps up from bed, run out of room...It shocked Raphael alot and he goes patting his chest area... I asked him if he is "papa"--scared... He nodded his head and keep patting his chest area..

Daddy...Please do not have such sudden movement in future ok..u are scaring our little boy!


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Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tokyo Trip!



Beautiful Ya? This is Mt Fuji and in less than a month's time, we be in Tokyo! Yeah! Of course with our little Darling Raphael. We will not leave him behind!

Though it be a hectic guided tour, we preferred to have it guided instead of free and easy as we are lazy pple.... Maybe the following year, we will try a free and easy Tokyo Trip again!



How can we missed the Tokyo Disneyland? This is a place which we must go!

Keep in tunes in mid Nov for more pictures ya!


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Sunday, October 18, 2009
Kent Ridge Park

After our breakfast, as its still early, we decided to drive up to Kent Ridge Park to expose Raphael to some natural surroundings. Up the steep road and we were greeted by a tank..Of course we had to pose with it haha..

The area was not crowded and we let Raphael explore by dragging us around..Daddy wanted to avoid the steep steps up the observatory point, but who knows...Raphael already started dragging Mummy up the steps haha..

Besides the tank, there is a small flower garden, initially Raphael was feeling adventurous and wanted to venture in. But 1/2 way thru, he realized the path is getting narrow and to avoid the shrubs, he actually lifted his arms haha..further in, he made a U-turn and decided its too much for him to explore further..Cute boy

As its nearing noon, the sun was strong and we were all perspiring away, especially Raphael who can even perspire when in Air-con room..An enjoyable Sunday morning, and off we go to Grandma Teo's house to rest before Raphael's Sunday lesson..

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Tired from the walk, cannot smile oredi hahah


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Breakfast@One Rochester - 18th Oct Sun

Its Sunday again, but with a difference. Today, mummy actually planned a breakfast outing which is so unlike her as she is usually lazy to go out so early with Raphael's barang barang..But today she got a good offer of 1 for 1 breakfast set, so off we went at 10am..

CTE is JAMMED as usual, so Daddy took the longer but more scenic SLE-KJE route and we reached our Destination at 1045am...yeah..the carpark was not crowded and the restaurant is near the carpark..up a flight of stairs and we are at One Rochester Park

We decided on the Rochester Brunch set with the eggs done 2 ways..they offer a wide variety for the set, museli, cereal, fruits, juices, bread and the mains..The service was prompt and friendly..Best of all is the outdoor area was cool and breezy..

We had a nice and lazy time until Raphael decided thats it..he had enough of sitting down, so Daddy and Mummy had to take turns to bring Raphael to "tour" the restaurant compound which is big and beautiful with lotsa shady trees.

Overall, enjoyable breakfast with nice surroundings made perfect with the 1 for 1 offer haha..
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Raphael poring over the menu..deep in thought on what to have for breakfast
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Nice outdoor seating area with Giant fans blowing, cool and no Mozzies
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Water curtain behind our table, nice sound of water dropping
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Raphael having his snack before breakfast
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Celery and Orange Juice

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Wholemeal bread with butter and jam
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Raspberry with museli, cocao crunch with milk and watermelon
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Mains with Scrambled eggs
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Mains with Sunny side egg
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Mummy smelling Raphael's armpit haha.
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Taking a walk in the restaurant compound
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Posing with the Restaurant Name as usual to mark our visit :p


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Visit to Punggol Prawn Fishing Farm - 17th Oct

After our usual Saturday swim, we went to Punggol Prawn Farm to look for Godpa Bennett..He was there prawning and managed to hook about 10 prawns in 1 1/2 hrs..Raphael also had a go at prawning..he was more interested in using the rod to beat the water haha..Daddy and Raphael tried for 10mins and caught nothing at all haha..handover the rod to Godpa and within mins, a prawn was hooked..Its was a real sunny and hot day..Pack up and get ready to go home for our Afternoon nap..yawnzz...

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Daddy and Raphael 1st attempt in prawning
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Raphael using the rod to hit the water instead
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Prawning proper pose


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