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With Godpa Bennett and Uncle Brandon overseas, this blog also serves to update
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Baby, Raphael Phay 彭俊铭
Born : 3rd May 2008
Taurus
Update as of 19th March 2015
Weight : 40kg
Height : 122cm

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Baby, Gabriel Phay 彭俊凯
Born : 26th Jan 2011
Aquarius
Update as of 19th March 2015
Weight : 22.5kg
Height : 105cm


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Monday, November 23, 2009
Terrible Twos and Raphael

Below article is worth reading, especially recently we realised Raphael is getting abit more of a terror out of a sudden.

He will cry at the slightest unhappiness and throw tantrum if things are not done according to his way. He will try to hit us when angry...

We as parents sometimes feel frustrated of such behaviour.. But have we truly understand why are they behaving these ways?

Maybe I pamper him too much, gone are the times with caning and physical abuse. It will only cause a mark to remember forever in a little kid fragile heart.

Below is the abstract taken from the link and I personally find greater depths in it...

http://pediatrics.about.com/od/toddlers/a/05_terrble_twos.htm


"No one looks forward to the terrible twos, a developmental stage that usually begins sometime in the toddler years.

Although many parents don't expect the terrible twos to start until their toddler is two years old, it is important to note that it can begin anytime during your child's second year, and so anytime after their first birthday, and unfortunately, sometimes even before.

Characterized by toddlers being negative about most things and often saying 'no', the terrible twos may also find your toddler having frequent mood changes and temper tantrums.

To help you cope with this normal stage in your child's development, you should always remember that your child isn't trying to be defiant or rebellious on purpose.

He is just trying to express his growing independence and doesn't have the language skills to easily express his needs.

This can also be the reason why your toddler frequently gets frustrated and resorts to hitting, biting, and temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way.

By learning more about this normal stage in your child's development, it can make it easier to get through it and make sure that you aren't contributing to more battles than are necessary.

Other tips for helping your toddler during the terrible twos include:

  • having a regular routine for meals, naps, bedtime, etc. and try to stick to them each day
  • offer limited choices only, like 'would you like apples or oranges for your snack' and not just 'what do you want for your snack.'

    This helps your toddler feel like he is making some decisions and has power over things, but he isn't able to choose unacceptable alternatives.
  • learn to set limits about things and don't be surprised when your toddler tries to test those limits to see what he can get away with
    don't give in to tantrums
  • begin to use time-out and taking away privileges as discipline techniques
  • provide your toddler with a safe environment that is well childproofed to explore and play in. It really isn't fair that your toddler should get in trouble for playing with something he isn't supposed to if you left it within reach.

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